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In Lithuanian language there is a proverb that translated word-for-word would say "The train does not wait for the shitting ones."



While sounding somewhat rude, it is perfect for expressing: "You are too late, and that's your own fault."



Is there any proverb in English that could convey the same idea?










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    I live in the U.S. and never had the pleasure of hearing this Lithuanian proverb before. Thank you! I have happily added it to my vocabulary. "The train does not wait for the shitting ones." Love it.
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    Tangentially related: Gorbatchev's famous "Those who are late will be castigated by life itself" ("Wer zu spät kommt, den bestraft das Leben"), aimed at Honecker.
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  • By “shitting ones,” do you mean those using the toilet?
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In Lithuanian language there is a proverb that translated word-for-word would say "The train does not wait for the shitting ones."



While sounding somewhat rude, it is perfect for expressing: "You are too late, and that's your own fault."



Is there any proverb in English that could convey the same idea?










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    I live in the U.S. and never had the pleasure of hearing this Lithuanian proverb before. Thank you! I have happily added it to my vocabulary. "The train does not wait for the shitting ones." Love it.
    – Headblender
    Nov 15 at 20:46






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    Tangentially related: Gorbatchev's famous "Those who are late will be castigated by life itself" ("Wer zu spät kommt, den bestraft das Leben"), aimed at Honecker.
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  • By “shitting ones,” do you mean those using the toilet?
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In Lithuanian language there is a proverb that translated word-for-word would say "The train does not wait for the shitting ones."



While sounding somewhat rude, it is perfect for expressing: "You are too late, and that's your own fault."



Is there any proverb in English that could convey the same idea?










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In Lithuanian language there is a proverb that translated word-for-word would say "The train does not wait for the shitting ones."



While sounding somewhat rude, it is perfect for expressing: "You are too late, and that's your own fault."



Is there any proverb in English that could convey the same idea?







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    I live in the U.S. and never had the pleasure of hearing this Lithuanian proverb before. Thank you! I have happily added it to my vocabulary. "The train does not wait for the shitting ones." Love it.
    – Headblender
    Nov 15 at 20:46






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    Tangentially related: Gorbatchev's famous "Those who are late will be castigated by life itself" ("Wer zu spät kommt, den bestraft das Leben"), aimed at Honecker.
    – Peter A. Schneider
    Nov 16 at 1:07










  • By “shitting ones,” do you mean those using the toilet?
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    I live in the U.S. and never had the pleasure of hearing this Lithuanian proverb before. Thank you! I have happily added it to my vocabulary. "The train does not wait for the shitting ones." Love it.
    – Headblender
    Nov 15 at 20:46






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    Tangentially related: Gorbatchev's famous "Those who are late will be castigated by life itself" ("Wer zu spät kommt, den bestraft das Leben"), aimed at Honecker.
    – Peter A. Schneider
    Nov 16 at 1:07










  • By “shitting ones,” do you mean those using the toilet?
    – Khalid Hussain
    11 hours ago








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I live in the U.S. and never had the pleasure of hearing this Lithuanian proverb before. Thank you! I have happily added it to my vocabulary. "The train does not wait for the shitting ones." Love it.
– Headblender
Nov 15 at 20:46




I live in the U.S. and never had the pleasure of hearing this Lithuanian proverb before. Thank you! I have happily added it to my vocabulary. "The train does not wait for the shitting ones." Love it.
– Headblender
Nov 15 at 20:46




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Tangentially related: Gorbatchev's famous "Those who are late will be castigated by life itself" ("Wer zu spät kommt, den bestraft das Leben"), aimed at Honecker.
– Peter A. Schneider
Nov 16 at 1:07




Tangentially related: Gorbatchev's famous "Those who are late will be castigated by life itself" ("Wer zu spät kommt, den bestraft das Leben"), aimed at Honecker.
– Peter A. Schneider
Nov 16 at 1:07












By “shitting ones,” do you mean those using the toilet?
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By “shitting ones,” do you mean those using the toilet?
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More succintly, and less formally, there is also "You snooze, you lose!"




(idiomatic) If you are not alert and attentive, you will not be successful.




https://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/you_snooze_you_lose






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    Ah, this could be it! While it looks quite different, I think the idea behind is basically the same.
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    Honestly, I like this one MUST better than the Lithuanian one. Sometimes nature calls and then does not cooperate with a speedy exit, and it's not your fault that you missed the train because of this. Snoozing, on the other hand, implies something deliberate that is your fault, and at least to me this form of the word omits sleep disorders beyond your control.
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Time and tide wait for no man, is an English proverb with a similar meaning.






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    I find this quite appropriate, maybe the closest in meaning, maybe just a little less common than some of the other suggestion, thanks!
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I can think of two that might be appropriate.



Though it doesn't necessarily deal directly with tardiness, there is, "You've made your bed. Now lie in it."
According to the online Cambridge Dictionary, it means:




said to someone who must accept the unpleasant results of something
they have done




Also, there is, "That ship has sailed."
The website UsingEnglish.com defines that as:




A particular opportunity has passed you by when that ship has sailed.




Although fault isn't explicit, I'd argue the latter idiom suggests the fault lies with the individual having waited too long to take advantage of an opportunity.






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    A variant is "to miss the boat": collinsdictionary.com/dictionary/english/to-miss-the-boat
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    @PaulJohnson: true, please post that one as answer in its own right, it's also good
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A day late and a dollar short



is another idiom meaning




late and ill-prepared




There is even a TV movie with this as a title based on a book of the same title






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  • Wow, so many story plots come to mind with this expression, truly poetic.
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    @brasofilo, and the universalit of the statement is amazing. Every person on Earth has experienced this truism.
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The early bird gets the worm.




Whoever arrives at the prize first gets it. (It's implied that slowpokes do not get anything)






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    “EARLY BIRD Oh, if you’re a bird, be an early bird And catch the worm for your breakfast plate. If you’re a bird, be an early early bird-- But if you’re a worm, sleep late.” ― Shel Silverstein, Where the Sidewalk Ends
    – KannE
    Nov 15 at 3:05






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    I still prefer the corollary: "But the second mouse gets the cheese..."
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  • And if you want something else for breakfast, get up later.
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How about




He who hesitates is lost




I had to look up the source for this proverb, which seems to be a play:



https://www.bookbrowse.com/expressions/detail/index.cfm/expression_number/455/he-who-hesitates-is-lost






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    Regarding 'trains' and tardiness...




    That train has left the station.




    (Also, the train instead of that train is said.)



    Broadly defined:




    That opportunity has already passed; that cannot be undone.




    https://www.phrases.net/phrase/that-train-has-left-the-station_20986



    It's similar to this saying--You've missed the boat.--meaning something is already underway, so it's too late to weigh in on that; you've missed your chance to do so or an opportunity in general.



    And regarding the [pooping] ones...



    "[Poop] or get off the pot!" Basic meaning: Quit stalling!



    Get it? Public restroom stalls... Never mind; toilet humor is optional.






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    • Isn't 'shit or get off the pot' more about hogging facilities/opportunities and stopping others accessing them? It's akin to 'dog in the manger' in that it is about the result of the shitter/dog being in a place they have no use for as a dog cannot east hay. The idiom the OP is after is about the person's loss being their own fault.
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    • @Spagirl, I know, some people use it like--My turn!--quite literally in public restrooms sometimes, but it's more about the 'constipated' person wasting time and possibly missing out because of it; it's not really about selfishness, but that's an interesting viewpoint. Which are we more concerned about--the pooper or the pot?--ha-ha. In any case, the poop part is intended to be an aside; that's why no reference is cited for it, but here is one just FYI: en.oxforddictionaries.com/definition/….
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    • I stand corrected then, that's certainly never been my understanding of the meaning. Every day a school day!
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    I've once heard the latin saying :




    Tarde venientibus ossa.




    Those who come late just get the scraps [litt. 'bones'].



    This is admittedly not English, but a reference exists in wikipedia.






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    • My English parents used this saying on me to mean "you are too late and it is your fault". Typically for not getting to the dinner table promptly and the worst I ever actually got was a cold dinner.
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    @drewhart mentioned "that ship has sailed". A common variant is "You missed the boat".






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      If you say




      Too little, too late




      you're "blaming someone for not doing enough to prevent a problem and for taking action only after the problem had become very bad."



      https://www.collinsdictionary.com/dictionary/english/too-little-too-late






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        the devil takes the hindmost




        has about the same meaning.






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        • Really? In 60 years of listening I've never heard anything at all like "the dogs always bite the last one" and I beg to point out that "the devil takes the hindmost" is clearly about he who comes last, not they who come late.
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        • @RobbieGoodwin it's a common German saying, while I've found out that it also does exist in English. being late to an event in time and being the last in row has similar meaning - and also the unfortunate result is there.
          – Martin Zeitler
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        • Sorry, Martin. If you think that saying is used in English, please provide some published examples. Either way, do you think there's no difference between "late" and "last"?
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        • @RobbieGoodwin have found it here: linguee.de/deutsch-englisch/uebersetzung/… ...sure I can differ in between late and last ...while hindmost is a new term I've learned.
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        • ok, when following the link to the source ...one can see it was written by a German. the devil takes the hindmost still appears to be of English origin.
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        More succintly, and less formally, there is also "You snooze, you lose!"




        (idiomatic) If you are not alert and attentive, you will not be successful.




        https://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/you_snooze_you_lose






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          Ah, this could be it! While it looks quite different, I think the idea behind is basically the same.
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          Honestly, I like this one MUST better than the Lithuanian one. Sometimes nature calls and then does not cooperate with a speedy exit, and it's not your fault that you missed the train because of this. Snoozing, on the other hand, implies something deliberate that is your fault, and at least to me this form of the word omits sleep disorders beyond your control.
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        More succintly, and less formally, there is also "You snooze, you lose!"




        (idiomatic) If you are not alert and attentive, you will not be successful.




        https://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/you_snooze_you_lose






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          Ah, this could be it! While it looks quite different, I think the idea behind is basically the same.
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          Honestly, I like this one MUST better than the Lithuanian one. Sometimes nature calls and then does not cooperate with a speedy exit, and it's not your fault that you missed the train because of this. Snoozing, on the other hand, implies something deliberate that is your fault, and at least to me this form of the word omits sleep disorders beyond your control.
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        More succintly, and less formally, there is also "You snooze, you lose!"




        (idiomatic) If you are not alert and attentive, you will not be successful.




        https://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/you_snooze_you_lose






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        More succintly, and less formally, there is also "You snooze, you lose!"




        (idiomatic) If you are not alert and attentive, you will not be successful.




        https://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/you_snooze_you_lose







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          Ah, this could be it! While it looks quite different, I think the idea behind is basically the same.
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          Nov 15 at 9:10






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          Honestly, I like this one MUST better than the Lithuanian one. Sometimes nature calls and then does not cooperate with a speedy exit, and it's not your fault that you missed the train because of this. Snoozing, on the other hand, implies something deliberate that is your fault, and at least to me this form of the word omits sleep disorders beyond your control.
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          Ah, this could be it! While it looks quite different, I think the idea behind is basically the same.
          – april
          Nov 15 at 9:10






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          Honestly, I like this one MUST better than the Lithuanian one. Sometimes nature calls and then does not cooperate with a speedy exit, and it's not your fault that you missed the train because of this. Snoozing, on the other hand, implies something deliberate that is your fault, and at least to me this form of the word omits sleep disorders beyond your control.
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        Ah, this could be it! While it looks quite different, I think the idea behind is basically the same.
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        Ah, this could be it! While it looks quite different, I think the idea behind is basically the same.
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        Honestly, I like this one MUST better than the Lithuanian one. Sometimes nature calls and then does not cooperate with a speedy exit, and it's not your fault that you missed the train because of this. Snoozing, on the other hand, implies something deliberate that is your fault, and at least to me this form of the word omits sleep disorders beyond your control.
        – Michael
        2 days ago




        Honestly, I like this one MUST better than the Lithuanian one. Sometimes nature calls and then does not cooperate with a speedy exit, and it's not your fault that you missed the train because of this. Snoozing, on the other hand, implies something deliberate that is your fault, and at least to me this form of the word omits sleep disorders beyond your control.
        – Michael
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        Time and tide wait for no man, is an English proverb with a similar meaning.






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          Obligatory XKCD: xkcd.com/1704
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          I find this quite appropriate, maybe the closest in meaning, maybe just a little less common than some of the other suggestion, thanks!
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          Nov 15 at 9:08








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          @justhalf It's really not obligatory. You could just ... not post xkcd links. It's not even a funny comic...
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          Obligatory XKCD: xkcd.com/1704
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          I find this quite appropriate, maybe the closest in meaning, maybe just a little less common than some of the other suggestion, thanks!
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          Nov 15 at 9:08








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          @justhalf It's really not obligatory. You could just ... not post xkcd links. It's not even a funny comic...
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        Time and tide wait for no man, is an English proverb with a similar meaning.






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        Time and tide wait for no man, is an English proverb with a similar meaning.







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          Obligatory XKCD: xkcd.com/1704
          – justhalf
          Nov 14 at 18:16






        • 1




          I find this quite appropriate, maybe the closest in meaning, maybe just a little less common than some of the other suggestion, thanks!
          – april
          Nov 15 at 9:08








        • 2




          @justhalf It's really not obligatory. You could just ... not post xkcd links. It's not even a funny comic...
          – only_pro
          2 days ago






        • 4




          XKCD adds value to everything. (46 upvoters agree)
          – Yvonne Aburrow
          2 days ago














        • 64




          Obligatory XKCD: xkcd.com/1704
          – justhalf
          Nov 14 at 18:16






        • 1




          I find this quite appropriate, maybe the closest in meaning, maybe just a little less common than some of the other suggestion, thanks!
          – april
          Nov 15 at 9:08








        • 2




          @justhalf It's really not obligatory. You could just ... not post xkcd links. It's not even a funny comic...
          – only_pro
          2 days ago






        • 4




          XKCD adds value to everything. (46 upvoters agree)
          – Yvonne Aburrow
          2 days ago








        64




        64




        Obligatory XKCD: xkcd.com/1704
        – justhalf
        Nov 14 at 18:16




        Obligatory XKCD: xkcd.com/1704
        – justhalf
        Nov 14 at 18:16




        1




        1




        I find this quite appropriate, maybe the closest in meaning, maybe just a little less common than some of the other suggestion, thanks!
        – april
        Nov 15 at 9:08






        I find this quite appropriate, maybe the closest in meaning, maybe just a little less common than some of the other suggestion, thanks!
        – april
        Nov 15 at 9:08






        2




        2




        @justhalf It's really not obligatory. You could just ... not post xkcd links. It's not even a funny comic...
        – only_pro
        2 days ago




        @justhalf It's really not obligatory. You could just ... not post xkcd links. It's not even a funny comic...
        – only_pro
        2 days ago




        4




        4




        XKCD adds value to everything. (46 upvoters agree)
        – Yvonne Aburrow
        2 days ago




        XKCD adds value to everything. (46 upvoters agree)
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        2 days ago










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        I can think of two that might be appropriate.



        Though it doesn't necessarily deal directly with tardiness, there is, "You've made your bed. Now lie in it."
        According to the online Cambridge Dictionary, it means:




        said to someone who must accept the unpleasant results of something
        they have done




        Also, there is, "That ship has sailed."
        The website UsingEnglish.com defines that as:




        A particular opportunity has passed you by when that ship has sailed.




        Although fault isn't explicit, I'd argue the latter idiom suggests the fault lies with the individual having waited too long to take advantage of an opportunity.






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          A variant is "to miss the boat": collinsdictionary.com/dictionary/english/to-miss-the-boat
          – Paul Johnson
          2 days ago






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          @PaulJohnson: true, please post that one as answer in its own right, it's also good
          – smci
          2 days ago















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        I can think of two that might be appropriate.



        Though it doesn't necessarily deal directly with tardiness, there is, "You've made your bed. Now lie in it."
        According to the online Cambridge Dictionary, it means:




        said to someone who must accept the unpleasant results of something
        they have done




        Also, there is, "That ship has sailed."
        The website UsingEnglish.com defines that as:




        A particular opportunity has passed you by when that ship has sailed.




        Although fault isn't explicit, I'd argue the latter idiom suggests the fault lies with the individual having waited too long to take advantage of an opportunity.






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        • 5




          A variant is "to miss the boat": collinsdictionary.com/dictionary/english/to-miss-the-boat
          – Paul Johnson
          2 days ago






        • 1




          @PaulJohnson: true, please post that one as answer in its own right, it's also good
          – smci
          2 days ago













        up vote
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        up vote
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        I can think of two that might be appropriate.



        Though it doesn't necessarily deal directly with tardiness, there is, "You've made your bed. Now lie in it."
        According to the online Cambridge Dictionary, it means:




        said to someone who must accept the unpleasant results of something
        they have done




        Also, there is, "That ship has sailed."
        The website UsingEnglish.com defines that as:




        A particular opportunity has passed you by when that ship has sailed.




        Although fault isn't explicit, I'd argue the latter idiom suggests the fault lies with the individual having waited too long to take advantage of an opportunity.






        share|improve this answer














        I can think of two that might be appropriate.



        Though it doesn't necessarily deal directly with tardiness, there is, "You've made your bed. Now lie in it."
        According to the online Cambridge Dictionary, it means:




        said to someone who must accept the unpleasant results of something
        they have done




        Also, there is, "That ship has sailed."
        The website UsingEnglish.com defines that as:




        A particular opportunity has passed you by when that ship has sailed.




        Although fault isn't explicit, I'd argue the latter idiom suggests the fault lies with the individual having waited too long to take advantage of an opportunity.







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        answered Nov 14 at 16:13









        drewhart

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        • 5




          A variant is "to miss the boat": collinsdictionary.com/dictionary/english/to-miss-the-boat
          – Paul Johnson
          2 days ago






        • 1




          @PaulJohnson: true, please post that one as answer in its own right, it's also good
          – smci
          2 days ago














        • 5




          A variant is "to miss the boat": collinsdictionary.com/dictionary/english/to-miss-the-boat
          – Paul Johnson
          2 days ago






        • 1




          @PaulJohnson: true, please post that one as answer in its own right, it's also good
          – smci
          2 days ago








        5




        5




        A variant is "to miss the boat": collinsdictionary.com/dictionary/english/to-miss-the-boat
        – Paul Johnson
        2 days ago




        A variant is "to miss the boat": collinsdictionary.com/dictionary/english/to-miss-the-boat
        – Paul Johnson
        2 days ago




        1




        1




        @PaulJohnson: true, please post that one as answer in its own right, it's also good
        – smci
        2 days ago




        @PaulJohnson: true, please post that one as answer in its own right, it's also good
        – smci
        2 days ago










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        A day late and a dollar short



        is another idiom meaning




        late and ill-prepared




        There is even a TV movie with this as a title based on a book of the same title






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        • Wow, so many story plots come to mind with this expression, truly poetic.
          – brasofilo
          20 hours ago






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          @brasofilo, and the universalit of the statement is amazing. Every person on Earth has experienced this truism.
          – JBH
          13 hours ago















        up vote
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        A day late and a dollar short



        is another idiom meaning




        late and ill-prepared




        There is even a TV movie with this as a title based on a book of the same title






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        • Wow, so many story plots come to mind with this expression, truly poetic.
          – brasofilo
          20 hours ago






        • 1




          @brasofilo, and the universalit of the statement is amazing. Every person on Earth has experienced this truism.
          – JBH
          13 hours ago













        up vote
        25
        down vote










        up vote
        25
        down vote









        A day late and a dollar short



        is another idiom meaning




        late and ill-prepared




        There is even a TV movie with this as a title based on a book of the same title






        share|improve this answer












        A day late and a dollar short



        is another idiom meaning




        late and ill-prepared




        There is even a TV movie with this as a title based on a book of the same title







        share|improve this answer












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        answered Nov 14 at 22:51









        Michael J.

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        • Wow, so many story plots come to mind with this expression, truly poetic.
          – brasofilo
          20 hours ago






        • 1




          @brasofilo, and the universalit of the statement is amazing. Every person on Earth has experienced this truism.
          – JBH
          13 hours ago


















        • Wow, so many story plots come to mind with this expression, truly poetic.
          – brasofilo
          20 hours ago






        • 1




          @brasofilo, and the universalit of the statement is amazing. Every person on Earth has experienced this truism.
          – JBH
          13 hours ago
















        Wow, so many story plots come to mind with this expression, truly poetic.
        – brasofilo
        20 hours ago




        Wow, so many story plots come to mind with this expression, truly poetic.
        – brasofilo
        20 hours ago




        1




        1




        @brasofilo, and the universalit of the statement is amazing. Every person on Earth has experienced this truism.
        – JBH
        13 hours ago




        @brasofilo, and the universalit of the statement is amazing. Every person on Earth has experienced this truism.
        – JBH
        13 hours ago










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        The early bird gets the worm.




        Whoever arrives at the prize first gets it. (It's implied that slowpokes do not get anything)






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          “EARLY BIRD Oh, if you’re a bird, be an early bird And catch the worm for your breakfast plate. If you’re a bird, be an early early bird-- But if you’re a worm, sleep late.” ― Shel Silverstein, Where the Sidewalk Ends
          – KannE
          Nov 15 at 3:05






        • 13




          I still prefer the corollary: "But the second mouse gets the cheese..."
          – Darrel Hoffman
          Nov 15 at 16:32










        • And if you want something else for breakfast, get up later.
          – RedSonja
          2 days ago















        up vote
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        The early bird gets the worm.




        Whoever arrives at the prize first gets it. (It's implied that slowpokes do not get anything)






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        • 8




          “EARLY BIRD Oh, if you’re a bird, be an early bird And catch the worm for your breakfast plate. If you’re a bird, be an early early bird-- But if you’re a worm, sleep late.” ― Shel Silverstein, Where the Sidewalk Ends
          – KannE
          Nov 15 at 3:05






        • 13




          I still prefer the corollary: "But the second mouse gets the cheese..."
          – Darrel Hoffman
          Nov 15 at 16:32










        • And if you want something else for breakfast, get up later.
          – RedSonja
          2 days ago













        up vote
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        up vote
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        The early bird gets the worm.




        Whoever arrives at the prize first gets it. (It's implied that slowpokes do not get anything)






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        The early bird gets the worm.




        Whoever arrives at the prize first gets it. (It's implied that slowpokes do not get anything)







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        answered Nov 15 at 2:09









        Arcanist Lupus

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        • 8




          “EARLY BIRD Oh, if you’re a bird, be an early bird And catch the worm for your breakfast plate. If you’re a bird, be an early early bird-- But if you’re a worm, sleep late.” ― Shel Silverstein, Where the Sidewalk Ends
          – KannE
          Nov 15 at 3:05






        • 13




          I still prefer the corollary: "But the second mouse gets the cheese..."
          – Darrel Hoffman
          Nov 15 at 16:32










        • And if you want something else for breakfast, get up later.
          – RedSonja
          2 days ago














        • 8




          “EARLY BIRD Oh, if you’re a bird, be an early bird And catch the worm for your breakfast plate. If you’re a bird, be an early early bird-- But if you’re a worm, sleep late.” ― Shel Silverstein, Where the Sidewalk Ends
          – KannE
          Nov 15 at 3:05






        • 13




          I still prefer the corollary: "But the second mouse gets the cheese..."
          – Darrel Hoffman
          Nov 15 at 16:32










        • And if you want something else for breakfast, get up later.
          – RedSonja
          2 days ago








        8




        8




        “EARLY BIRD Oh, if you’re a bird, be an early bird And catch the worm for your breakfast plate. If you’re a bird, be an early early bird-- But if you’re a worm, sleep late.” ― Shel Silverstein, Where the Sidewalk Ends
        – KannE
        Nov 15 at 3:05




        “EARLY BIRD Oh, if you’re a bird, be an early bird And catch the worm for your breakfast plate. If you’re a bird, be an early early bird-- But if you’re a worm, sleep late.” ― Shel Silverstein, Where the Sidewalk Ends
        – KannE
        Nov 15 at 3:05




        13




        13




        I still prefer the corollary: "But the second mouse gets the cheese..."
        – Darrel Hoffman
        Nov 15 at 16:32




        I still prefer the corollary: "But the second mouse gets the cheese..."
        – Darrel Hoffman
        Nov 15 at 16:32












        And if you want something else for breakfast, get up later.
        – RedSonja
        2 days ago




        And if you want something else for breakfast, get up later.
        – RedSonja
        2 days ago










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        How about




        He who hesitates is lost




        I had to look up the source for this proverb, which seems to be a play:



        https://www.bookbrowse.com/expressions/detail/index.cfm/expression_number/455/he-who-hesitates-is-lost






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          How about




          He who hesitates is lost




          I had to look up the source for this proverb, which seems to be a play:



          https://www.bookbrowse.com/expressions/detail/index.cfm/expression_number/455/he-who-hesitates-is-lost






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            up vote
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            up vote
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            How about




            He who hesitates is lost




            I had to look up the source for this proverb, which seems to be a play:



            https://www.bookbrowse.com/expressions/detail/index.cfm/expression_number/455/he-who-hesitates-is-lost






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            How about




            He who hesitates is lost




            I had to look up the source for this proverb, which seems to be a play:



            https://www.bookbrowse.com/expressions/detail/index.cfm/expression_number/455/he-who-hesitates-is-lost







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            answered Nov 14 at 22:28









            pbasdf

            862116




            862116






















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                Regarding 'trains' and tardiness...




                That train has left the station.




                (Also, the train instead of that train is said.)



                Broadly defined:




                That opportunity has already passed; that cannot be undone.




                https://www.phrases.net/phrase/that-train-has-left-the-station_20986



                It's similar to this saying--You've missed the boat.--meaning something is already underway, so it's too late to weigh in on that; you've missed your chance to do so or an opportunity in general.



                And regarding the [pooping] ones...



                "[Poop] or get off the pot!" Basic meaning: Quit stalling!



                Get it? Public restroom stalls... Never mind; toilet humor is optional.






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                • Isn't 'shit or get off the pot' more about hogging facilities/opportunities and stopping others accessing them? It's akin to 'dog in the manger' in that it is about the result of the shitter/dog being in a place they have no use for as a dog cannot east hay. The idiom the OP is after is about the person's loss being their own fault.
                  – Spagirl
                  Nov 15 at 15:08












                • @Spagirl, I know, some people use it like--My turn!--quite literally in public restrooms sometimes, but it's more about the 'constipated' person wasting time and possibly missing out because of it; it's not really about selfishness, but that's an interesting viewpoint. Which are we more concerned about--the pooper or the pot?--ha-ha. In any case, the poop part is intended to be an aside; that's why no reference is cited for it, but here is one just FYI: en.oxforddictionaries.com/definition/….
                  – KannE
                  Nov 15 at 17:25












                • I stand corrected then, that's certainly never been my understanding of the meaning. Every day a school day!
                  – Spagirl
                  Nov 15 at 17:33






                • 1




                  My upvote is for "The train has left the station."
                  – J.R.
                  2 days ago















                up vote
                8
                down vote













                Regarding 'trains' and tardiness...




                That train has left the station.




                (Also, the train instead of that train is said.)



                Broadly defined:




                That opportunity has already passed; that cannot be undone.




                https://www.phrases.net/phrase/that-train-has-left-the-station_20986



                It's similar to this saying--You've missed the boat.--meaning something is already underway, so it's too late to weigh in on that; you've missed your chance to do so or an opportunity in general.



                And regarding the [pooping] ones...



                "[Poop] or get off the pot!" Basic meaning: Quit stalling!



                Get it? Public restroom stalls... Never mind; toilet humor is optional.






                share|improve this answer























                • Isn't 'shit or get off the pot' more about hogging facilities/opportunities and stopping others accessing them? It's akin to 'dog in the manger' in that it is about the result of the shitter/dog being in a place they have no use for as a dog cannot east hay. The idiom the OP is after is about the person's loss being their own fault.
                  – Spagirl
                  Nov 15 at 15:08












                • @Spagirl, I know, some people use it like--My turn!--quite literally in public restrooms sometimes, but it's more about the 'constipated' person wasting time and possibly missing out because of it; it's not really about selfishness, but that's an interesting viewpoint. Which are we more concerned about--the pooper or the pot?--ha-ha. In any case, the poop part is intended to be an aside; that's why no reference is cited for it, but here is one just FYI: en.oxforddictionaries.com/definition/….
                  – KannE
                  Nov 15 at 17:25












                • I stand corrected then, that's certainly never been my understanding of the meaning. Every day a school day!
                  – Spagirl
                  Nov 15 at 17:33






                • 1




                  My upvote is for "The train has left the station."
                  – J.R.
                  2 days ago













                up vote
                8
                down vote










                up vote
                8
                down vote









                Regarding 'trains' and tardiness...




                That train has left the station.




                (Also, the train instead of that train is said.)



                Broadly defined:




                That opportunity has already passed; that cannot be undone.




                https://www.phrases.net/phrase/that-train-has-left-the-station_20986



                It's similar to this saying--You've missed the boat.--meaning something is already underway, so it's too late to weigh in on that; you've missed your chance to do so or an opportunity in general.



                And regarding the [pooping] ones...



                "[Poop] or get off the pot!" Basic meaning: Quit stalling!



                Get it? Public restroom stalls... Never mind; toilet humor is optional.






                share|improve this answer














                Regarding 'trains' and tardiness...




                That train has left the station.




                (Also, the train instead of that train is said.)



                Broadly defined:




                That opportunity has already passed; that cannot be undone.




                https://www.phrases.net/phrase/that-train-has-left-the-station_20986



                It's similar to this saying--You've missed the boat.--meaning something is already underway, so it's too late to weigh in on that; you've missed your chance to do so or an opportunity in general.



                And regarding the [pooping] ones...



                "[Poop] or get off the pot!" Basic meaning: Quit stalling!



                Get it? Public restroom stalls... Never mind; toilet humor is optional.







                share|improve this answer














                share|improve this answer



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                edited 2 days ago

























                answered Nov 15 at 4:38









                KannE

                798114




                798114












                • Isn't 'shit or get off the pot' more about hogging facilities/opportunities and stopping others accessing them? It's akin to 'dog in the manger' in that it is about the result of the shitter/dog being in a place they have no use for as a dog cannot east hay. The idiom the OP is after is about the person's loss being their own fault.
                  – Spagirl
                  Nov 15 at 15:08












                • @Spagirl, I know, some people use it like--My turn!--quite literally in public restrooms sometimes, but it's more about the 'constipated' person wasting time and possibly missing out because of it; it's not really about selfishness, but that's an interesting viewpoint. Which are we more concerned about--the pooper or the pot?--ha-ha. In any case, the poop part is intended to be an aside; that's why no reference is cited for it, but here is one just FYI: en.oxforddictionaries.com/definition/….
                  – KannE
                  Nov 15 at 17:25












                • I stand corrected then, that's certainly never been my understanding of the meaning. Every day a school day!
                  – Spagirl
                  Nov 15 at 17:33






                • 1




                  My upvote is for "The train has left the station."
                  – J.R.
                  2 days ago


















                • Isn't 'shit or get off the pot' more about hogging facilities/opportunities and stopping others accessing them? It's akin to 'dog in the manger' in that it is about the result of the shitter/dog being in a place they have no use for as a dog cannot east hay. The idiom the OP is after is about the person's loss being their own fault.
                  – Spagirl
                  Nov 15 at 15:08












                • @Spagirl, I know, some people use it like--My turn!--quite literally in public restrooms sometimes, but it's more about the 'constipated' person wasting time and possibly missing out because of it; it's not really about selfishness, but that's an interesting viewpoint. Which are we more concerned about--the pooper or the pot?--ha-ha. In any case, the poop part is intended to be an aside; that's why no reference is cited for it, but here is one just FYI: en.oxforddictionaries.com/definition/….
                  – KannE
                  Nov 15 at 17:25












                • I stand corrected then, that's certainly never been my understanding of the meaning. Every day a school day!
                  – Spagirl
                  Nov 15 at 17:33






                • 1




                  My upvote is for "The train has left the station."
                  – J.R.
                  2 days ago
















                Isn't 'shit or get off the pot' more about hogging facilities/opportunities and stopping others accessing them? It's akin to 'dog in the manger' in that it is about the result of the shitter/dog being in a place they have no use for as a dog cannot east hay. The idiom the OP is after is about the person's loss being their own fault.
                – Spagirl
                Nov 15 at 15:08






                Isn't 'shit or get off the pot' more about hogging facilities/opportunities and stopping others accessing them? It's akin to 'dog in the manger' in that it is about the result of the shitter/dog being in a place they have no use for as a dog cannot east hay. The idiom the OP is after is about the person's loss being their own fault.
                – Spagirl
                Nov 15 at 15:08














                @Spagirl, I know, some people use it like--My turn!--quite literally in public restrooms sometimes, but it's more about the 'constipated' person wasting time and possibly missing out because of it; it's not really about selfishness, but that's an interesting viewpoint. Which are we more concerned about--the pooper or the pot?--ha-ha. In any case, the poop part is intended to be an aside; that's why no reference is cited for it, but here is one just FYI: en.oxforddictionaries.com/definition/….
                – KannE
                Nov 15 at 17:25






                @Spagirl, I know, some people use it like--My turn!--quite literally in public restrooms sometimes, but it's more about the 'constipated' person wasting time and possibly missing out because of it; it's not really about selfishness, but that's an interesting viewpoint. Which are we more concerned about--the pooper or the pot?--ha-ha. In any case, the poop part is intended to be an aside; that's why no reference is cited for it, but here is one just FYI: en.oxforddictionaries.com/definition/….
                – KannE
                Nov 15 at 17:25














                I stand corrected then, that's certainly never been my understanding of the meaning. Every day a school day!
                – Spagirl
                Nov 15 at 17:33




                I stand corrected then, that's certainly never been my understanding of the meaning. Every day a school day!
                – Spagirl
                Nov 15 at 17:33




                1




                1




                My upvote is for "The train has left the station."
                – J.R.
                2 days ago




                My upvote is for "The train has left the station."
                – J.R.
                2 days ago










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                I've once heard the latin saying :




                Tarde venientibus ossa.




                Those who come late just get the scraps [litt. 'bones'].



                This is admittedly not English, but a reference exists in wikipedia.






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                • My English parents used this saying on me to mean "you are too late and it is your fault". Typically for not getting to the dinner table promptly and the worst I ever actually got was a cold dinner.
                  – Simon G.
                  Nov 15 at 16:19















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                I've once heard the latin saying :




                Tarde venientibus ossa.




                Those who come late just get the scraps [litt. 'bones'].



                This is admittedly not English, but a reference exists in wikipedia.






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                • My English parents used this saying on me to mean "you are too late and it is your fault". Typically for not getting to the dinner table promptly and the worst I ever actually got was a cold dinner.
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                I've once heard the latin saying :




                Tarde venientibus ossa.




                Those who come late just get the scraps [litt. 'bones'].



                This is admittedly not English, but a reference exists in wikipedia.






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                I've once heard the latin saying :




                Tarde venientibus ossa.




                Those who come late just get the scraps [litt. 'bones'].



                This is admittedly not English, but a reference exists in wikipedia.







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                • My English parents used this saying on me to mean "you are too late and it is your fault". Typically for not getting to the dinner table promptly and the worst I ever actually got was a cold dinner.
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                • My English parents used this saying on me to mean "you are too late and it is your fault". Typically for not getting to the dinner table promptly and the worst I ever actually got was a cold dinner.
                  – Simon G.
                  Nov 15 at 16:19
















                My English parents used this saying on me to mean "you are too late and it is your fault". Typically for not getting to the dinner table promptly and the worst I ever actually got was a cold dinner.
                – Simon G.
                Nov 15 at 16:19




                My English parents used this saying on me to mean "you are too late and it is your fault". Typically for not getting to the dinner table promptly and the worst I ever actually got was a cold dinner.
                – Simon G.
                Nov 15 at 16:19










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                @drewhart mentioned "that ship has sailed". A common variant is "You missed the boat".






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                  @drewhart mentioned "that ship has sailed". A common variant is "You missed the boat".






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                    @drewhart mentioned "that ship has sailed". A common variant is "You missed the boat".






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                    @drewhart mentioned "that ship has sailed". A common variant is "You missed the boat".







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                        If you say




                        Too little, too late




                        you're "blaming someone for not doing enough to prevent a problem and for taking action only after the problem had become very bad."



                        https://www.collinsdictionary.com/dictionary/english/too-little-too-late






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                          If you say




                          Too little, too late




                          you're "blaming someone for not doing enough to prevent a problem and for taking action only after the problem had become very bad."



                          https://www.collinsdictionary.com/dictionary/english/too-little-too-late






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                            If you say




                            Too little, too late




                            you're "blaming someone for not doing enough to prevent a problem and for taking action only after the problem had become very bad."



                            https://www.collinsdictionary.com/dictionary/english/too-little-too-late






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                            If you say




                            Too little, too late




                            you're "blaming someone for not doing enough to prevent a problem and for taking action only after the problem had become very bad."



                            https://www.collinsdictionary.com/dictionary/english/too-little-too-late







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                                the devil takes the hindmost




                                has about the same meaning.






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                                • Really? In 60 years of listening I've never heard anything at all like "the dogs always bite the last one" and I beg to point out that "the devil takes the hindmost" is clearly about he who comes last, not they who come late.
                                  – Robbie Goodwin
                                  7 hours ago










                                • @RobbieGoodwin it's a common German saying, while I've found out that it also does exist in English. being late to an event in time and being the last in row has similar meaning - and also the unfortunate result is there.
                                  – Martin Zeitler
                                  6 hours ago












                                • Sorry, Martin. If you think that saying is used in English, please provide some published examples. Either way, do you think there's no difference between "late" and "last"?
                                  – Robbie Goodwin
                                  6 hours ago










                                • @RobbieGoodwin have found it here: linguee.de/deutsch-englisch/uebersetzung/… ...sure I can differ in between late and last ...while hindmost is a new term I've learned.
                                  – Martin Zeitler
                                  6 hours ago












                                • ok, when following the link to the source ...one can see it was written by a German. the devil takes the hindmost still appears to be of English origin.
                                  – Martin Zeitler
                                  6 hours ago

















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                                the devil takes the hindmost




                                has about the same meaning.






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                                • Really? In 60 years of listening I've never heard anything at all like "the dogs always bite the last one" and I beg to point out that "the devil takes the hindmost" is clearly about he who comes last, not they who come late.
                                  – Robbie Goodwin
                                  7 hours ago










                                • @RobbieGoodwin it's a common German saying, while I've found out that it also does exist in English. being late to an event in time and being the last in row has similar meaning - and also the unfortunate result is there.
                                  – Martin Zeitler
                                  6 hours ago












                                • Sorry, Martin. If you think that saying is used in English, please provide some published examples. Either way, do you think there's no difference between "late" and "last"?
                                  – Robbie Goodwin
                                  6 hours ago










                                • @RobbieGoodwin have found it here: linguee.de/deutsch-englisch/uebersetzung/… ...sure I can differ in between late and last ...while hindmost is a new term I've learned.
                                  – Martin Zeitler
                                  6 hours ago












                                • ok, when following the link to the source ...one can see it was written by a German. the devil takes the hindmost still appears to be of English origin.
                                  – Martin Zeitler
                                  6 hours ago















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                                the devil takes the hindmost




                                has about the same meaning.






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                                the devil takes the hindmost




                                has about the same meaning.







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                                answered 13 hours ago









                                Martin Zeitler

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                                • Really? In 60 years of listening I've never heard anything at all like "the dogs always bite the last one" and I beg to point out that "the devil takes the hindmost" is clearly about he who comes last, not they who come late.
                                  – Robbie Goodwin
                                  7 hours ago










                                • @RobbieGoodwin it's a common German saying, while I've found out that it also does exist in English. being late to an event in time and being the last in row has similar meaning - and also the unfortunate result is there.
                                  – Martin Zeitler
                                  6 hours ago












                                • Sorry, Martin. If you think that saying is used in English, please provide some published examples. Either way, do you think there's no difference between "late" and "last"?
                                  – Robbie Goodwin
                                  6 hours ago










                                • @RobbieGoodwin have found it here: linguee.de/deutsch-englisch/uebersetzung/… ...sure I can differ in between late and last ...while hindmost is a new term I've learned.
                                  – Martin Zeitler
                                  6 hours ago












                                • ok, when following the link to the source ...one can see it was written by a German. the devil takes the hindmost still appears to be of English origin.
                                  – Martin Zeitler
                                  6 hours ago




















                                • Really? In 60 years of listening I've never heard anything at all like "the dogs always bite the last one" and I beg to point out that "the devil takes the hindmost" is clearly about he who comes last, not they who come late.
                                  – Robbie Goodwin
                                  7 hours ago










                                • @RobbieGoodwin it's a common German saying, while I've found out that it also does exist in English. being late to an event in time and being the last in row has similar meaning - and also the unfortunate result is there.
                                  – Martin Zeitler
                                  6 hours ago












                                • Sorry, Martin. If you think that saying is used in English, please provide some published examples. Either way, do you think there's no difference between "late" and "last"?
                                  – Robbie Goodwin
                                  6 hours ago










                                • @RobbieGoodwin have found it here: linguee.de/deutsch-englisch/uebersetzung/… ...sure I can differ in between late and last ...while hindmost is a new term I've learned.
                                  – Martin Zeitler
                                  6 hours ago












                                • ok, when following the link to the source ...one can see it was written by a German. the devil takes the hindmost still appears to be of English origin.
                                  – Martin Zeitler
                                  6 hours ago


















                                Really? In 60 years of listening I've never heard anything at all like "the dogs always bite the last one" and I beg to point out that "the devil takes the hindmost" is clearly about he who comes last, not they who come late.
                                – Robbie Goodwin
                                7 hours ago




                                Really? In 60 years of listening I've never heard anything at all like "the dogs always bite the last one" and I beg to point out that "the devil takes the hindmost" is clearly about he who comes last, not they who come late.
                                – Robbie Goodwin
                                7 hours ago












                                @RobbieGoodwin it's a common German saying, while I've found out that it also does exist in English. being late to an event in time and being the last in row has similar meaning - and also the unfortunate result is there.
                                – Martin Zeitler
                                6 hours ago






                                @RobbieGoodwin it's a common German saying, while I've found out that it also does exist in English. being late to an event in time and being the last in row has similar meaning - and also the unfortunate result is there.
                                – Martin Zeitler
                                6 hours ago














                                Sorry, Martin. If you think that saying is used in English, please provide some published examples. Either way, do you think there's no difference between "late" and "last"?
                                – Robbie Goodwin
                                6 hours ago




                                Sorry, Martin. If you think that saying is used in English, please provide some published examples. Either way, do you think there's no difference between "late" and "last"?
                                – Robbie Goodwin
                                6 hours ago












                                @RobbieGoodwin have found it here: linguee.de/deutsch-englisch/uebersetzung/… ...sure I can differ in between late and last ...while hindmost is a new term I've learned.
                                – Martin Zeitler
                                6 hours ago






                                @RobbieGoodwin have found it here: linguee.de/deutsch-englisch/uebersetzung/… ...sure I can differ in between late and last ...while hindmost is a new term I've learned.
                                – Martin Zeitler
                                6 hours ago














                                ok, when following the link to the source ...one can see it was written by a German. the devil takes the hindmost still appears to be of English origin.
                                – Martin Zeitler
                                6 hours ago






                                ok, when following the link to the source ...one can see it was written by a German. the devil takes the hindmost still appears to be of English origin.
                                – Martin Zeitler
                                6 hours ago







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